migo's interview at the new school was early this morning.
principal nora manuel was stern but smiling when she called him into her office. i saw him through the glass window as he sat in front of her, knees together, hands clasped on his lap, just as i'd told him. i wasn't sure if he was gonna breeze through it. what with a 'failed' mark for his reading and language entrance exam the day before. he had a high score in math though. and his SAI is 113, above average.
after about fifteen minutes, he was out the door telling hubby and me that the principal wanted us inside. my heart skipped a beat.
once inside, the principal asked migo to step outside.
i was wondering why your son is an underachiever... were her first words. i was stunned but immediately got back my composure.
what do you...? how so? why did you say that? i don't understand. i put my bag aside and put both my arms on top of her desk, crossed. what EXACTLY do you mean by that?
she told us that migo had a high IQ but it only showed in his math exam (he got a high 3.8), but did not reflect in his reading (2.5) and language (1.8) exams. it meant that he is above average in intelligence but doesn't seem able to use that academically. i was literally crushed. no, make that heart-broken. i don't know if my voice broke or was just unsteady as i explained to her that my son does seem to lack interest in those subjects but excels in math, science and general information. that he is also very good in taekwondo--a gold medalist even. that he has a whole lot going for him and the reason why we are actually transferring him to this school is because we actually want him to be better at what he's not. having said that, the principal was supportive. she said they were admitting him to 3rd grade but on probationary status--meaning his grades have to be good on the 1st grading period. if otherwise, we were asked to sign a 'contract' that he will attend remedial classes.
my heart still aches as i type this. but my heart knows that this is but a wake up call. i have always been lauded by my friends for being such a great or cool mom. the problem with that, i realized now, is i usually let my kids do only what makes them happy. which is good, from another person's point of view. case in point, migo's reading and language would've been better had i "forced" him to like those subjects instead of letting him study only those that he liked. i know i've been really lax with him this past schoolyear, what with my nanny being the one assisting him with his homeworks. i am so sorry that i've not been a good mom....
but today is a new beginning for him and me. we'll prove to that new principal at that new school how lucky they have become to have acquired migo as their student. aja!
